Obedience & Permission Tasks for Submissives
10 obedience & permission tasks to explore, each with a full guide. Save the ones that fit your dynamic.
2Orgasm PermissionDo not orgasm until you have asked clearly and received an answer.
31Masturbation PermissionAsk before touching yourself sexually during the agreed period.
60Bedtime PermissionLet your Dom decide or approve when you go to bed during the agreed period.
89Treat PermissionPlace one optional pleasure—such as dessert, gaming, shopping, or another agreed indulgence—under permission for the day.
118Meal PermissionAsk before beginning a meal during the chosen period, then follow any agreed dining protocol.
147Ask Before SittingRemain standing or kneeling until your Dom gives permission to sit during the agreed interaction.
176Ask Before SpeakingDuring a defined scene or protocol period, wait for permission before speaking unless safety requires otherwise.
203Let Your Dom Choose One Thing TodayHand over one ordinary decision—such as what to wear, eat, watch, or do—and follow the choice.
230Complete a Surprise InstructionCarry out one unexpected but pre-negotiated instruction without delaying or trying to redesign it.
256Request an ExceptionWhen a rule cannot reasonably be followed, ask for an exception using the agreed form instead of silently ignoring it.