No. 102Sexual Service & Orgasm ControlAsk your Dom to choose one approved way to use your body during the scene.
Task No. 102 of 282
Ask How Your Body May Be Used
Ask your Dom to choose one approved way to use your body during the scene.
What it is
The sub directly asks the Dom to choose one approved sexual way to use their body during the current scene. The request should come from a known menu or clearly understood range of activities rather than an undefined promise of access. Once the Dom answers, the sub confirms anything ambiguous before following the instruction. The focus is the transfer of one sexual choice, not humiliation or objectification unless those elements were negotiated separately.
Why it is submissive
The sub gives the next sexual decision to the Dom and accepts not knowing which approved use will be selected. They make availability explicit while preserving the boundaries that define the Dom’s actual choice. The Dom names the role or activity and determines how the scene proceeds.
Why people may like it
The question can create a compact but powerful surrender of choice. Some subs enjoy hearing the Dom name exactly what they will be used for, while others are drawn to the uncertainty between several approved possibilities. The request may feel more direct and vulnerable than silently presenting. Doms may enjoy receiving a clear invitation that still gives them room to choose.
Ways to run it
- Choose From Three Acts
- The sub offers three approved sexual activities and lets the Dom select one.
- Choose One Body Area
- The Dom chooses which approved part of the sub’s body will be used or attended to.
- Choose Giver or Receiver
- The Dom decides which partner gives and which receives the approved service.
- Written Question
- The sub sends the question privately before the planned encounter.
- Ask After Inspection
- The sub presents first, then asks how the Dom wants the body used.
How this task works
Ask How Your Body May Be Used is a scene task from the sexual service chart. This is an in-person task — it needs you and your Dom in the same room. It's an explicit task, for adults in a negotiated sexual dynamic.
Intermediate: best once you've built trust, protocol, and a track record together. Standard care applies: negotiate first, agree on limits, and check in afterward.
