No. 27Sexual Stimulation & ServiceMasturbate under the Dominant’s direction instead of choosing how to touch yourself.
Punishment No. 27 of 204
Masturbate on Command
Masturbate under the Dominant’s direction instead of choosing how to touch yourself.
What it is
Masturbate on Command requires the sub to stimulate themselves because the Dominant has ordered it. The Dom may decide when the performance starts, how long it lasts, what kind of stimulation is allowed, or whether orgasm is permitted. It can happen in person or remotely. Unlike Manual Sexual Service, the submissive is touching their own body rather than providing stimulation to someone else.
What makes it punishing
Masturbation is usually private and self-directed. Turning it into an order removes that freedom. The sub may have to perform while being watched, continue despite not being in the mood, or follow instructions that block the pace or technique they would normally choose for themselves.
Why Dominants Choose It
This punishment gives the Dominant control over an act the submissive would normally own completely. The sub’s own hands become the means of carrying out the Dom’s decision. That can make the correction feel exposing and personal without requiring the Dominant to administer the stimulation directly. It also works naturally at a distance.
Ways to run it
- Observed Masturbation
- The submissive masturbates while the Dominant watches and directs the performance in real time.
- Remote Command
- The Dominant assigns the masturbation from a distance and controls the agreed conditions through instructions.
- Toy Required
- The submissive must use one specifically approved toy rather than choosing their preferred method.
- No Orgasm
- The submissive must masturbate for the assigned period but is not permitted to climax.
- Fixed Duration
- The Dominant sets how long the masturbation must continue before the punishment is complete.
How this punishment works
Masturbate on Command is from the sexual stimulation & service category. It works in person or apart, so long-distance dynamics can run it too. It's an explicit punishment, for adults in a negotiated sexual dynamic.
Beginner-friendly: a possible early consequence in a new dynamic.
